The Robert E. Lee Boyhood Home Virtual Museum

Questions from our e-mailbox

Lee Boyhood Home
[Here are some questions and answers garnered from our mail bag. We try to answer all questions relying on available information and, as needed, upon the knowledge of former Home docents and staff and Alexandria, VA historians and archives. Your input would be appreciated should the information supplied be outdated, incorrect or inadequate.]

LEE FAMILY GENEALOGY (Subject most asked about):

1. Q. Isn't there a family tree that shows Robert's descendants to the present. Maybe show any that are still living today ?
A. You can find a complete list of Robert E. Lee descendants, living and dead, at: http://www.stratfordhall.org

2. Q. How do I go about trying to find out if I am related to Robert E. Lee?
A. Check the Lees of Virginia at: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/7590/Lee_RobtE.htm. Another source would be the Alexandria VA Library Special Collections Department at: http://www.alexandria.lib.va.us/lhsc/special_collections_home.html. The Library is very helpful and has a large Lee collection.

  • A Lee scholar comments: The best first source for those trying to make a connection to the Lees of Virginia (descendants of Richard Lee I who came to Virginia about 1640) is the book "Lee of Virginia" by Edmund Jennings Lee. It was first published about 1895 and was reprinted in 1983 by the Baltimore Genealogical Publishing Co.. Copies should be available in any fairly large library. This book lists every descendant of Richard Lee I known in 1895 - these include Robert E. Lee and many other famous Lees. If readers can make a documented connection to anyone listed in this book, then he or she is a Lee of Virginia.

    3. Q. What is the Lee family Coat of Arms?
    A. I am no heraldry expert; therefore, I can't distinguish between one Lee coat-of-arms and another. Using the Google search engine, I found three different responses to a request for "Lee coats-of-arms," none of which is that used by the Lee Boyhood Home. The one used by the experts at the Home is the most complex with four quartering shields, a squirrel above the shield, and the Latin motto, "Non Incautus Futuri" -- "Not unmindful of the future," below.

    4. Q. I think I am related to the Lee's through their Fitzhugh Connection. Can you help me?
    A. The most knowledgeable person I know about the Fitzhugh family is Charleen Oerding at: hotomy@hevanet.com. If she doesn't know the answer herself, I am sure she is in contact with the Fitzhugh Society and can help you find out.

    ABOUT THE LEE BOYHOOD HOME:

    1. Q.If Robert E. Lee's Boyhood home is not a museum anymore, what is it being used for? Is there anyway I can get a history of who lived there like at the Lee-Fendall House?
    A.The Lee Boyhood Home was sold in March 2000 to Mark and Ann Kington of Alexandria, VA. It is now their private residence. Should you wish, I would be happy to mail you a copy of the Chain of Title to the home from it's construction to its acquisition by the Lee-Jackson Foundation. Note: The Chain of Title is now part of the Boyhood Home Virtual Museum.

    2 Q. Can you tell me what conveniences have been added to the home since General Lee's time and when?
    A. Conveniences and dates installed at 607 Oronoco were: Running water -- 1833; Gas lights -- 1848; Central heating -- 1853; Electricity -- 1891.

    3 Q.I am interested in scheduling a tour of your facility for next year - the evening of Saturday, Feb. 22, 2003. I would have approximately 40-50 people on this tour. Is this something I can schedule this far in advance? And if so, I would like to know if you have dining facilities or have an agreement with a local restaurant? Please send any information to me via e-mail, if possible, or my mailing address is below.
    A. I deeply regret that the Lee Boyhood Home has not been available for tours since its sale on 2 March 2000 to a private buyer for his residence. Your interest is appreciated and I trust you join me in the hope that it may eventually be returned to the public domain.

    4. Q [Message from the Netherlands] ... can you please send me an official photograph of General Lee? I believe this great man deserves a honorable place in my home.
    A. I am sorry, but the "Virtual" Museum is a web site only and has no artifacts such as pictures to send. Such pictures as we have are available for download on line as part of the "portrait gallery." You might visit Lee's birthplace site at http://stratfordhall.org. I am sure they have Lee portraits for sale.

    ROBERT E. LEE PERSONAL INFORMATION:

    1. Q. I live in S. California and I have been searching through a packet of very old photos and tintypes and have a small photo of General Robert E. Lee in uniform, I have researched it somewhat and have been unable to locate it in any book or on computer. If you can help with this, I will be grateful. It's a very fine picture and he appears to be younger than all the other photos that I have seen of him.
    A. The earliest known likeness of General Lee is a portrait painted in 1838 when he was 31 years old. the picture, in the uniform of a captain of US Army Corp of Engineers, appears in the Museum gallery.

    2. Q. What were General Lee's dying words?
    A. General Lee left no dying utterance. On the evening of September 28, 1871, in the words of Paul C. Nagel in The Lees of Virginia: "He seated himself at the table and undertook to say a prayer, but he could not speak. He had been silenced when one of the clogged arteries to his brain apparently ceased to function." General Lee lingered on until October 12, but speech was impossible.

    3. Q. I've enjoyed touring your sites on Robert E. Lee. All I'm missing is his horse's name. I understand that he always rode the same horse. Would you kindly tell me what it is?
    A. Robert E. Lee's famous horse was named "Traveller." The horse is buried next to the Lee Chapel at Washington and Lee University in Lexington, VA.

    4. Q. [From the Pentagon] Hoping you can answer a question for me: How tall was Robert E. Lee?
    A. In April, 1861, according to Douglas Southall Freeman's Lee, the general, age 54, was 5' 11" tall and weighed 170 pounds.

    THE TWO MRS. LIGHT HORSE HARRY LEE:

    1. Q. Seeking information about Robert E. Lee's mother having been accidentally buried alive, discovered by a servant, rescued. Listening for a reply.
    A. I checked the Boyhood Home research files today and came up with an article from the Washington Star of 13 Feb 1966 which referred to Mrs. Lee's "fear of being buried alive. Mrs. Lee, a victim of narcolepsy, had been [buried alive ?] at the age of 17." There were no further details, but it does substantiate the story you heard.

    2. A.Thanks so much for the info. I did not have this information before. This brings up another question now. Do you happen to know if R.E.L.'s father's first wife, Matilda, was married to anyone else?
    A.Matilda Lee (1764-90) was the daughter of Philip Ludwell Lee (1727-75) of Stratford. Her marriage to Henry "Light-horse Harry" Lee (1756-1818) was her only marriage.

    3. Q.I am looking to find a picture or some information on the engagement ring that Gen. Lee would have given his wife. Would you have any information that could help me locate a picture?
    A. We are informed by one of our viewers who has seen it that, "It is a platinum ring with two good quality (by my guess)2-3 carat diamonds on either side of a flawless 2-3 carat deep blue sapphire. The platinum mounting is very mid-Victorian being handmade and in a network pattern." The ring is a prized possession of a Lee descendant.

    MISCELLANEOUS QUESTIONS:

    1. Q.Where, exactly, will I find Stratford Hall? I understand it has a dinner place. I plan a visit to the area during Christmas week and would like to eat there.
    A. Stratford Hall may be reached off I-95 exit 130 in Fredericksburg, VA. Proceed east onto state route 3. Follow SR 3 for about 50 minutes until you reach SR 214. Stratford Hall is 2 miles down 214. The dining room is closed on Christmas. I thoroughly enjoyed my visit. There is a lot to see. It's well worth the trip.

    2.Q.I am looking for information on the Lee-Jackson Scholarship Program and I am unable to find it on the Internet. If you can help, I'd surely appreciate it.
    A. The latest link is available on the Boyhood Home Virtual Museum at the Service Desk.

    3. Q. A teacher in Iowa planning to visit Virginia asked about required prior arrangements to visit the Cross Keys and McDowell sites owned by the Lee-Jackson Foundation.
    A. The Lee Boyhood Home Virtual Museum has no connection with the Lee-Jackson Foundation. Foundation scholarship information is provided only as a service to eligible Virginia students. For the information you seek, contact the Foundation directly at the address given.